C-sect

Recently, a post went viral on fb about a woman who died because of uterine rupture few hrs after labour. The women was allegedly pregnant with her second child 3 months after she delivered her first baby. Read this before, i think it is commonly known as irish twin, whereby your second child will be born before the first child reach his/her 1st birthday (get it??)

The above is a statement made by another person in fb, which is very legit. It is exactly what my gynae told us. I was pregnant with my third child when my second  daughter is 17 month (1 yr ++) with a low lying placenta condition or better known as placenta previa. My pregnancy was categorised as a high risk pregnancy (my first child is a still born - story about that later maybe and my second one was born via c-sect due to punctured water bag). 

As adviced by the gynae, we opted for elective caesarean for the second baby. We had a lot of unkind remarks made by friends and family. They said that I should try experiencing normal vaginal birth. Some said that the doctor is choosing the easy way out, "taknak fikir", "ada duit blh bayar". Some even mocking me by saying "tak merasa la mcmana mak sakit nak bersalin". "Kalau dah takdir takde rezeki c-sect pon blm tentu baby selamat". Amboiiiiiiiiii.... 

We were very thankful that we stick to our decision despite of what people have said to us. As I said before, we chose to "do something" about our pregnancy rather than biar takdir menentukan because "kita perlu berusaha sebelum menyerahkan pada takdir". And again u guys have no idea what we have to ho througj to get our babies. So please stop judging othet people's life. 

I think I lost my point for this entry. The emotion got the better of me. Sorry if I've just wasted your time reading this.

*Pergi ambil tisu kejap*